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How to come out when you are already in a committed relationship

I realized I am gay at thirty-eight after being married to a man for twelve years and I do not know how to tell him without destroying both our lives.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between authentic self-discovery and existing commitments can create an impossible choice between personal truth and relational responsibility.

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“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.