Periagoge
Scenario

When You've Lost Yourself in a Long-Term Relationship

I've been married for twelve years and I realize I've been performing the version of myself I thought my spouse wanted instead of being who I actually am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The authentic self has been gradually buried under layers of adaptive performance for love's sake.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Relationships & Communication?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.