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When you discover your sexual orientation after marriage

I've been married to a man for fifteen years and I'm just now realizing I'm a lesbian and I have no idea how to handle this without destroying everyone's life.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Late-blooming truth can feel like a betrayal of the life you've built with someone who loved who you thought you were.

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