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When Helping Someone Stay Safe Becomes Your Burden

My coworker keeps asking me to walk to the parking lot with her after late shifts, and I don't mind helping but I'm starting to feel responsible for her safety in a way that stresses me out.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your willingness to provide protection has evolved into an ongoing responsibility that exceeds your original intent or capacity.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Personal Safety & Emergency Preparedness?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.