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Scenario

Why caregiving resentment creates such profound guilt

My disabled sister lives with me and I love her but I also resent her and I hate myself for feeling this way because she did not choose this either.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The simultaneous presence of love and resentment toward a vulnerable person creates an internal conflict that feels morally unacceptable.

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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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