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When Losing an Aging Pet Feels Like Losing Part of Your Identity

My elderly dog is suffering and the vet says it is time but I cannot make the appointment because losing him feels like losing the last connection to my younger self.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Animal companions carry our historical selves in ways that their death makes permanently irretrievable.

Ideas that help explain it
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