Periagoge
Scenario

When people blame you for an ex-partner's transition

My ex transitioned after we broke up and everyone keeps asking me if I 'turned them trans' like my love somehow caused their gender dysphoria.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Others need simple causation for complex identity, making you responsible for truths that were always there.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ Life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.