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Scenario

How to balance safety with autonomy in elder care

My father refuses help and lives in squalor but he is still competent legally and I have to watch him deteriorate while respecting his autonomy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Respecting someone's right to make poor choices requires accepting their suffering as the price of their dignity.

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Hypatia
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