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Scenario

When forgiveness does not heal the wound

My girlfriend cheated on me eight months ago and I forgave her but I check her phone constantly and I hate who I have become.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Choosing to forgive and actually trusting again are two entirely different processes that operate on different timelines.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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