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When Caring About Someone's Safety Looks Like Control

My girlfriend thinks I'm being controlling when I text to make sure she got home safe, but she takes rideshares alone at night and I just want to know she's okay.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your protective concern expresses itself in ways that feel invasive to the person you're trying to keep safe.

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