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When Your Spouse Says You've Grown Apart But Gives No Real Explanation

My husband of 22 years wants to separate and I keep asking him what I did wrong but he just says we grew apart and I cannot accept that answer.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The need for causation and control confronts the reality that some endings resist explanation.

Ideas that help explain it
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