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Why Growing Apart Isn't Always Failure

My marriage ended because I grew and changed and my spouse stayed exactly the same but everyone acts like growing apart is a failure instead of life.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The mythology of permanent compatibility denies the reality that authentic development sometimes leads us away from what once fit perfectly.

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