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Scenario

How to Handle Family Members Who Rewrite Your Story

My mom keeps introducing me to people as her son who 'made a mistake' but it wasn't a mistake — I chose to sell drugs because we needed money and I'd probably choose it again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-meaning loved ones can erase agency and accountability in their attempts to restore dignity.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reentry & Second Chances?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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