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How to Handle Family Members Who Rewrite Your Story

My mom keeps introducing me to people as her son who 'made a mistake' but it wasn't a mistake — I chose to sell drugs because we needed money and I'd probably choose it again.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-meaning loved ones can erase agency and accountability in their attempts to restore dignity.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.