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When caregiving requires daily deception to protect someone you love

My mother has dementia and keeps asking for her dead husband and I lie to her every single day because the truth makes her cry, but the lying is eating me alive.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between compassionate lies and personal integrity creates a moral wound that deepens with each necessary deception.

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