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Scenario

When Your Stepchild Says You're Trying Too Hard

My stepdaughter told her mom I'm 'trying too hard' and now my wife thinks I should back off completely but if I do that I feel like I'm abandoning this kid who already has abandonment issues.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're caught between authentic care and the impossible task of calibrating love to meet everyone else's comfort levels.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Blended Families & Stepparenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.