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Why normal teenage development can feel like personal rejection

My teenager won't hug me anymore and barely talks to me, and I know this is normal development but it feels like rejection and I take it personally.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Our children's natural individuation process can trigger our own abandonment fears, making their healthy growth feel like loss.

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