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Scenario

When partnerships develop unintended hierarchies

My business partner handles all our client-facing work because they're more comfortable with sales, but I'm starting to realize this means I have no direct relationships with the people we serve and I feel disconnected from the impact of our work. When I brought this up, they got defensive and said they were protecting me from the stressful parts, but it's making me question whether this is really an equal partnership.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two equals discover that dividing labor by comfort zones can create invisible power imbalances that undermine the partnership itself.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian role identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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