My college roommate and I are both exploring our gender identity but we're doing it really differently - they're very public about it on social media and involved in campus activism while I'm more private and still figuring things out. Living together means I'm constantly confronted with their certainty and visibility while I'm still questioning, and I think they see my uncertainty as internalized transphobia.
More people experience this than they realize.
Intimate proximity during identity formation can turn natural differences in timing and style into sources of comparison and judgment.
“Where Are You with Non-binary and genderqueer identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.