Periagoge
Scenario

When couples disagree about starting families in uncertain political times

My girlfriend and I both want kids but we're struggling with how much to consider the political climate and safety issues for queer families when making this decision, and we realize we have different levels of optimism about the future and different comfort with risk. We love each other but we're approaching this life choice from completely different frameworks about what it means to build a queer family right now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Partners are discovering that shared dreams require navigating very different relationships to hope and risk.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Queer identity as political and personal?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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