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Scenario

When your household can't agree on consequences for property damage

My housemate damaged my stuff during a fight and everyone in our house is split between wanting them to just replace it versus sitting down together to understand why it happened and how to prevent it, and the tension is making everything worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living communities fracture when some members prioritize restitution while others emphasize understanding and prevention.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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