LibraryScenariosWhen spouses are both questioning their lives but afraid to discuss it openly
Scenario

When spouses are both questioning their lives but afraid to discuss it openly

My husband and I are both feeling restless about the lives we've built but we're scared to talk about it directly because what if we want different things? He's been talking about early retirement and travel, and I've been secretly researching going back to school for something completely different, but we're both dancing around the conversation because we don't know if our individual reinventions are compatible with staying married.

Juana
Online
The coach is replying

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are simultaneously experiencing midlife identity shifts but avoiding honest dialogue out of fear their individual transformations might not align.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Midlife identity reinvention?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.