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Scenario

When both partners have ADHD but cope differently

My partner and I are both ADHD and we keep having the same fight about household tasks where I hyperfocus and clean everything obsessively for hours while they can't get started at all, and we both end up feeling like failures in completely different ways.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people with the same neurotype are discovering their coping mechanisms are incompatible and creating mutual shame.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Neurodivergent identity — autism and ADHD?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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