Periagoge
Scenario

When couples convert to different denominations of the same religion

My partner and I are both converting to Judaism but we're drawn to completely different denominations and we can't figure out how to do this together when Orthodox feels right to me and Reform feels right to them and our rabbi keeps saying we need to be on the same path.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people seeking the same spiritual destination are discovering that their authentic paths diverge in ways that challenge their ability to transform together.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Converting — gaining a new identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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