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Scenario

When couples leave faith at different speeds

My partner and I are both leaving our childhood religions but at completely different paces and I'm feeling isolated in our deconstruction process while they're still attending services and maintaining relationships I've already walked away from. We can't seem to find a rhythm that honors where we each are without one of us feeling abandoned or judged.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are navigating religious deconstruction at incompatible paces, creating distance in their most intimate relationship during a time when they need support most.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Leaving faith and identity reconstruction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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