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Scenario

When partners navigate identity changes in long-term relationships

My partner came out as non-binary eight months ago and we're both adjusting to how this changes our relationship dynamic and how we present as a couple to the world. Some days I feel like I'm being a good ally and other days I feel like I'm grieving something and I don't know if those feelings are valid or harmful.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A relationship is being reshaped by one partner's evolving identity, creating space for both celebration and loss that need to be acknowledged without invalidating anyone's experience.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Transgender experience and identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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