My partner came out as non-binary eight months ago and we're both adjusting to how this changes our relationship dynamic and how we present as a couple to the world. Some days I feel like I'm being a good ally and other days I feel like I'm grieving something and I don't know if those feelings are valid or harmful.
More people experience this than they realize.
A relationship is being reshaped by one partner's evolving identity, creating space for both celebration and loss that need to be acknowledged without invalidating anyone's experience.
“Where Are You with Transgender experience and identity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.