Periagoge
Scenario

When partners have fundamentally different approaches to social change

My romantic partner and I are both activists but we disagree about tactics - I believe in working within existing systems for change and they think that's just maintaining oppression with extra steps. It's affecting how we see each other and I don't know how to bridge this gap without one of us compromising our core beliefs.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimate relationships can fracture when people who share values choose incompatible methods for living those values.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Converting — gaining a new identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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