My roommate is kothi like me but they're out to their family and I'm not, and the different ways we navigate family relationships is creating awkwardness when our families interact or when we make decisions about our shared space.
More people experience this than they realize.
People sharing an identity find that different family dynamics and disclosure decisions affect their ability to support each other.
“Where Are You with South Asian gender diversity — hijra and kothi?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.