My sister-in-law and I both claim to know what my brother would have wanted for his memorial service, and we're planning completely different events that reflect our different relationships with him.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different relationships with the deceased create competing claims to interpretive authority over their wishes and values.
“Where Are You with Widowed identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.