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When upward mobility creates tension in working-class relationships

My spouse and I are both from working-class families but I got a professional job and now make significantly more money, and it's created this weird tension where I feel guilty about 'leaving my roots' and they feel left behind. We can't figure out how to navigate family gatherings or our own relationship when my income puts us in a different class than where we started.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Economic advancement can fracture relationships when partners process class transition differently.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Poverty and identity?”

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