My spouse and I are both involved in our kids' school but we see the problems there completely differently - they think I'm being too confrontational with the administration and I think they're being too accommodating to systems that aren't serving our child.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different approaches to institutional power are creating conflict in your partnership while the original problem remains unaddressed.
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