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Scenario

When couples navigate different paces during gender transition

My spouse and I are trying to navigate my transition together but we keep having the same conversation about timeline and medical decisions where they need more time to process and I need to move forward and we're both feeling unheard. We love each other but we're stuck in this loop of me feeling held back and them feeling rushed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love each other are discovering that transition creates fundamentally different experiences of time, urgency, and readiness that require renegotiating their shared rhythm.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Transgender experience and identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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