My spouse and I are trying to navigate my transition together but we keep having the same conversation about timeline and medical decisions where they need more time to process and I need to move forward and we're both feeling unheard. We love each other but we're stuck in this loop of me feeling held back and them feeling rushed.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love each other are discovering that transition creates fundamentally different experiences of time, urgency, and readiness that require renegotiating their shared rhythm.
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