My teenager just came out as non-binary and my spouse and I are trying to support them but we're approaching it completely differently - I'm researching everything and wanting to talk openly about it while my spouse is more cautious and worried about privacy and 'making a big deal' of it. Our kid is picking up on the tension and I think they feel like they have to manage our reactions instead of us supporting them.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who want the same outcome discover their protective instincts manifest as conflicting strategies for care.
“Where Are You with Non-binary and genderqueer identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
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