My work team knows I'm transitioning and they're all trying to be supportive but they keep asking me to be the spokesperson for trans issues in every meeting and diversity initiative. I appreciate that they see me as knowledgeable but I didn't sign up to be the trans representative for everything and I don't know how to set boundaries without seeming ungrateful.
More people experience this than they realize.
Well-meaning colleagues are inadvertently creating additional emotional labor by assuming that personal experience automatically translates into professional obligation to educate and represent.
“Where Are You with Transgender experience and identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
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