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Scenario

When a sibling's gender transition changes family dynamics and relationships

My younger brother came out as trans last year and I want to be supportive, but I'm also grieving the sister I thought I had and I don't know how to process that without making his transition about me. We used to be really close and now there's this careful distance between us that neither of us knows how to bridge.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Siblings are navigating how one person's identity evolution reshapes not just individual identity but the fundamental nature of their relationship and shared history.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sibling identity dynamics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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