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How female leaders navigate expectations of niceness

Our all-female leadership team keeps getting praised for being 'collaborative' and 'supportive' but when we try to make tough decisions or give direct feedback, we second-guess ourselves and end up in these endless circular discussions because none of us wants to be seen as the 'difficult' woman.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Women in leadership are paralyzed by internalized expectations about feminine behavior, preventing them from exercising necessary authority.

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