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When friend groups struggle with mixed-race authenticity questions

Our friend group has always been diverse but lately there's tension around how I identify myself as mixed Latina when some people think I'm not 'really' Latina enough, and others get defensive when I talk about experiencing racism. We used to avoid these conversations but now the silence feels worse than the awkwardness.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A social group must navigate competing claims about racial authenticity that threaten the relationships that sustain them.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Mixed-race identity and belonging?”

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