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Scenario

When friend groups struggle with different life circumstances and values

Our friend group has been trying to plan a reunion for two years but we keep getting stuck because some people want something low-key and affordable while others want to go big, and now it's become this weird proxy fight about who's changed and who hasn't since college.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Planning decisions are surfacing deeper tensions about class, priorities, and how you've each evolved since your shared past.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Economic justice — what it requires?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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