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When spouses disagree about leaving faith - one wants reform, the other wants out

We're both questioning our evangelical upbringing but my husband wants to find a 'healthier' church while I'm done with Christianity entirely, and we keep having the same circular conversation about what this means for our marriage and how we'll raise our kids without either of us actually saying what we're afraid of losing.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people deconstructing faith at different speeds and toward different endpoints, unable to bridge the gap between reform and rejection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Leaving faith and identity reconstruction?”

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