Periagoge
Scenario

When couples encounter persistent gender assumptions during wedding planning

We're planning our wedding and every vendor meeting turns into this dynamic where they talk to my partner about logistics and costs but ask me about 'the vision' and colors, and we both hate it but we can't figure out how to interrupt it without making everything harder for ourselves.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Partners need strategies for pushing back against role expectations while navigating vendors and family dynamics that may resist their approach.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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