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Scenario

When polyamorous partners have conflicting relationship visions

We've been in this polyamorous relationship structure for two years and one of us wants to move toward more commitment and boundaries while the other wants to stay open. We keep having the same circular conversations and I'm starting to feel like we're incompatible in a fundamental way.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your different needs for security and freedom are challenging the foundation of your shared structure.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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