We've been in this polyamorous relationship structure for two years and one of us wants to move toward more commitment and boundaries while the other wants to stay open. We keep having the same circular conversations and I'm starting to feel like we're incompatible in a fundamental way.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your different needs for security and freedom are challenging the foundation of your shared structure.
“Where Are You with Identity and money — what wealth does to selfhood?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.