Periagoge
Scenario

When compliments reveal hidden assumptions

Every time someone compliments my English I want to scream because I was born here and they're really just commenting on my face.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Microaggressions disguised as praise can repeatedly signal that belonging is conditional and appearance determines assumption.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Survivor identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.