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When gender presentation becomes relationship assumption

Everyone assumes I'm the 'man' in my lesbian relationship because I'm more masculine presenting and it makes me want to scream.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Heteronormative frameworks imposed on queer relationships deny the complexity of non-binary partnership dynamics.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined queer identity?”

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