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Scenario

When gender presentation becomes relationship assumption

Everyone assumes I'm the 'man' in my lesbian relationship because I'm more masculine presenting and it makes me want to scream.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Heteronormative frameworks imposed on queer relationships deny the complexity of non-binary partnership dynamics.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined queer identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.