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Why simple gender identity feels inadequate in queer spaces

Everyone in my friend group seems to have some kind of complex gender story and I feel boring and unexamined for just being straightforwardly female.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The richness of others' gender journeys is making your uncomplicated relationship to gender feel shallow or inauthentic.

Ideas that help explain it
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