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When people praise your strength after losing your spouse

Everyone keeps telling me I'm 'so strong' for handling everything alone, but I just want to scream that I never asked to be this person.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Others' expectations of resilience can trap the grieving in a performance of strength that denies their authentic experience.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Widowed identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.