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Scenario

When your mistake puts someone else at risk

I accidentally outed my gay coworker to our conservative boss and now he's being treated differently and I don't know if confessing my mistake will help him or make it worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The aftermath of causing harm through carelessness reveals how taking responsibility can sometimes prioritize the perpetrator's moral clarity over the victim's practical safety.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.