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Why the flaws we criticize most reveal our own struggles

I always judge people for being on their phones but realized I pick up mine every three minutes and feel like a complete hypocrite

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The behaviors that trigger our strongest judgments often mirror our own unexamined patterns.

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