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Scenario

How to distinguish attraction from emotional need

I am attracted to my best friend who is straight and married, and I cannot tell if these feelings are real or just my loneliness talking.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Isolation can distort desire, making it difficult to separate genuine connection from the desperate need for acceptance.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gay and lesbian identity across cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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