I am kothi and dating a man who says he loves me but refuses to introduce me to his friends or family.
More people experience this than they realize.
Conditional acceptance in intimate relationships mirrors broader social patterns of shame and concealment.
“Where Are You with South Asian gender diversity — hijra and kothi?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.