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When romantic love requires difficult disclosure

I am kothi and fell in love with someone who does not know about my identity and now I am trapped between honesty and losing them.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The timing of identity revelation in intimate relationships involves navigating vulnerability, trust, and potential rejection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with South Asian gender diversity — hijra and kothi?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.