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Scenario

How to Honor Immigrant Parents While Following Your Own Dreams

I am torn between my Vietnamese family's expectation that I become a doctor and my dream of being an artist, and choosing art feels like abandoning their sacrifices for my education.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Personal fulfillment conflicts with family sacrifice narratives, making individual choice feel like betrayal of collective struggle and investment.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cultural assimilation vs. preservation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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